Life is all about making people around you happy

People get frustrated by the way their life is moving along. And they always have somebody else to blame than themselves. I was one of them. But the day when I saw all my dreams crushing and felt like my career would break like a Windows 7 professional (for closed-minded people, take it as, tsunami ), I told myself stop blaming somebody else. Stop blaming your University because the Professor is not good, you are struggling in that course because you spent thrusday night drinking at Unibar rather than finishing that assignment. Stop blaming your mom for cooking that salty vegetables, you should be doing that for her, not vice versa. Stop blaming your girl friend for all that miscommunication!!! It may be always you who make rash decision. The focal point of all these pressure situation is, take control over your life. It’s not the world who will change or act the way you want it to be. But it’s you, who have to change/act the way that makes you happy.

However, in day to day life, it’s really hard to define the word “happy”. For me, I am happy when friends and family around me are happy, and when I can actually do something for them. Or, when they call me just to say how frustration or exciting day they had. For other, a trip to the hard rock cafe would make them happy!!! or for someone listening to same Pink Floyd song for hours would be ultimate happiness!!